25th
Closing thoughts
I’m writing from seat 18C on the flight home after this journey. I’m alone for the first time in two weeks. It’s an odd feeling. No one saying I have to be rolling in 10 minutes. No jokes from the crew about various body parts and sounds. No Team 2. But countless memories. We came into Halifax yesterday on a misty day and full police escort. The latter was led by a big Harley-riding Sergeant with a walrus moustache and huge belly laugh. This man has seen it all in what I imagine has been a long career with the police. We got to know him more than other police escorts because he spoke after Jeff’s dedication yesterday morning. The officer offered his own thoughts on cancer and what it means to police in Halifax. He cried three separate times in what was a 6 or 7 minute talk. This big burly man, on a big burly police bike, had a tough time talking about what cancer had done to his immediate family and those in the 700+ Halifax police family. He then led the charge for a great ride through one of my favourite cities in Canada. Always has been. The police have been incredible from one coast to the next. They protected us on empty roads and busy highways. They stopped to talk when at a break, and often shared their own stories. Same with the firemen we met, and going into Redvers we had an ambulance provide the escort. These men and women put it on the line everyday for citizens. We should all be very thankful that they do. It’s much more than a job, as I came to know from those doing our escorts and those on my team. Last night at dinner all the teams presented their experiences on the road. Some great stories. Many common themes, with varying details. The addition of a free bar opened things up even more, though this is not a shy crowd. The laughs outweighed the tears last night, but we were all aware of the underlying cause as we gathered for one last time. Cancer kills many children and damages many more. It tears some families apart at the seams. It brings some closer. It creates lifelong friends while also robbing many kids of a childhood. It’s devastating. Pure and simple. And we are doing something about it. I’m very proud of what we are doing as a group, with the support of thousands of people across the country. And I’m proud of myself. I did it. I took on this challenge months ago and am now, in seat 18C, reflecting on what all this means for me, my family, friends and people I will never meet but may have helped as a result of this ride. I learned a lot about fear and what it can do to your mind and body. Those who take on cancer with a positive frame of mind - who are not afraid - seem to come out stronger. I’m sure there is a correlation. If Sharon and I were told that one of the girls had cancer, it would of course be horrible news. But I know for sure that coming out of this cross-Canada experience, I would be stronger going into that cancer journey than I was only a few weeks ago. To handle fear is to work off a steady platform. I want to close with some thanks. Naming family and friends specifically would take too long and I would inevitably forget someone. But a special thanks to Sharon for what she has done for me and the girls over the last several months. Jeff, Steven, Louisa, Mike, Lori, Kristin, Larry, Jenn and all the others at the Foundation are amazing people. They create experiences that foster wellness and volunteerism, all in the name of a cause that needed help. They give it, for countless hours, with a smile. A thank you as well to all those reading my blog. This was my first experience in doing this and I greatly enjoyed it. I look forward to seeing your comments when I’m next in front of a computer. Lastly, to Team 2. You gave me friendship, support, advice, space and the occasional kick in the pants. I’m a better cyclist, father and person for what we did together. Thank you. Steve
